…as a result I haven’t been posting very much or replying to a lot of emails
As some of you may know my husband and I were planning a trip to the UK to see our new granddaughter. In fact we should be on-route as I write this post but clearly I’m not on a plane to anywhere right now.
Early last week we were just getting over the sad news of three deaths in our extended family (not related to the virus) when my husband’s doctor strongly advised him not to take this trip. His suppressed immune system put him in a very high risk category for catching the coronavirus. It was a difficult decision but the right one not to go.
Now I had to decide if I would go without him and spend the first five days with our daughter, granddaughter and son-in-law and then the next eight days alone but close to our son, daughter-in-law and the new baby. I had a lot of mixed messages from colleagues and friends. Some said I should go and enjoy the new baby and others were worried that I could return and infect my husband and 93 year old father.
By Wednesday evening the airline that we were flying on offered a rebooking option without a penalty fee but we had to take the trip before September 1st. That did not work for my daughter and her family because of the summer camp that they run. However, as you know, every hour things changed quickly in the world and by Thursday evening the airline came back, after a lot of backlash from the public and extended the rebooking offer to December 31st.
All of us rebooked for mid October. On Saturday my husband and I ventured out to the mall to finalize our travel cancellation and rebooked our trip at the same time. We were happy the we booked through the Flight Centre because they did all the grunt work for us. After taking our information they sent us home and within a couple of hours we were notified that all was taken care of. Our daughter on the other hand spent a lot of time just trying to get through to the airline because they had booked on-line. Once they finally got through they were on hold for almost an hour but in the end they also were able to cancel this flight and rebook for later.
When we were at the mall Saturday afternoon we were surprised how empty the mall was. People certainly weren’t stocking up here for anything.
On Thursday our 13 1/2 year old dog, Frances, was clearly not well. She wasn’t eating, had difficulty walking and controlling her bladder. She slept most of the time and when she was awake she dragged her back legs and moved sideways. We had seen similar symptoms with our last dog and we knew that if she had the same thing she would recover but it would take a few days. On Friday we took her to the vet and she was also pretty sure that Frances has a vestibular disorder that affects her balance. She gave us some more medicine for her arthritis and some wet food that would stimulate her appetite. I’m happy to say that she’s already feeling somewhat better. She is eating and drinking more and even wanted to go out for a walk today. She still walks lopsided and you can see in the photo that her head is still tilted to the side.
I hope I haven’t alarmed anyone with the heading at the top of this post. No one in our family, neighbourhood or amongst our friends has the virus but the global epidemic has affected our lives and will continue to do so for the coming weeks. Practise social distancing, wash your hands a lot and stay healthy and please don’t hoard things you don’t need. It makes it very difficult for people, especially seniors who need those things to get them.
Be positive and stay calm.
Carol (aka Mama Cormier)
Good advice Carol, and glad you are staying safe. Use skype in meanwhile to check in on the new family member xxx
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Thanks Becky. We are Whatsapp users and have been for many years. Love it.
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You have obviously taken the best advice. May you get through it safely and see your new granddaughter when she is just a little older.
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Thanks for the kind words Derrick. Thank goodness for the internet and Whatsapp. Our son send photos and videos at least twice a week.
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Frances has such a sweet face. I hope she’s better soon and was delighted to hear you’ve been able to rearrange your trip.
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I always dread it when family dogs start to get old. Frances is our third dog and we know her remaining time with us is numbered. Having said that though our last dog lived another 3 1/2 years after suffering from the same condition.
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Let’s all keep our fingers crossed 🤞 for Frances.
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Thanks.
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And to you!
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Thanks Diane.
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All hunkered down here too. We postponed our trip earlier this month too.
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We were hoping that it wouldn’t get this bad but once the travel bans became a reality it was an easy decision. Hope you post things that keep you busy. Right now I have lots to do but I can see at some point that I might go stir crazy.
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I think you made the right choice to wait until October to visit. I’m glad Frances is feeling better! I hope you all stay safe and healthy!
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Thanks Michelle. This all seems so surreal but it’s happening all over the world. We’re pretty much self isolating, as are most of my friends. I wish the same for you and your family.
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