….not sure why but it has affected my blog
I’ve been writing and posting on this blog for over 10 years. I rarely miss a day and as of late I’ve been missing a day or two a week. Sometimes the issue has been with internet connections not working because of severe weather or just being crazy busy with life. This last week however I had not posted in a week and I left my emails go unanswered. Yesterday I finally responded to over 50 comments that were left on my site. I feel that I’m letting my followers down.
Yesterday I told my husband that I’m feeling overwhelmed. I’ve been cat sitting for a sick neighbour since Mother’s Day and we were dog sitting for 10 days while our daughter and daughter-in-law were on holiday on the East Coast. This holiday weekend I stayed home from the cottage to attend the Lawn Bowling Canada Day BBQ and be around when Andrea returned to pick up Olive. The cat and dog situation did not go well because they just didn’t get along so Tober spent more time in his house and didn’t come over at all. Today he is back.


Summer has barely started and I feel like it is almost over. Two days a week I’m baking at the Montgomery’s Inn, I belong to a book club and our meetings keep getting changed because of conflicts with people’s schedules. When a date was finally agreed upon I was the one with a conflict because our evening meeting was changed to the afternoon and I had already made a date with a friend. I told the group to go ahead without me. Lawn bowling is taking up some of my days as well. I’m part of the Golden Girls and five times this summer I’m scheduled to play in a tournament. Earlier this week when we played we got caught in a sudden storm and I was drenched. We had our Canada Day BBQ on the weekend and that was fun and much drier. I also play bridge with my neighbours and Mary wanted to host a garden bridge party. Unfortunately all the dates selected didn’t work for me and I had to decline.




I could go on about the BBQs I’ve attended , planning a trip to go to Calgary in two weeks, trying to maintain my garden, going to the dentist, and trying to keep the house somewhat clean but I don’t want to bore you. What I’m not doing is making art and I think that is part of my problem. I love all the things that I do but the most creative activity has taken a back seat. Kevin is painting up a storm but I haven’t been able to pick up a brush or pencil. I have to learn to say no and I have been doing that more often but I’m still busy. This weekend I’m making time to go to the cottage and I’ll bring a book and some art supplies.


So I’m sorry that I haven’t been getting to my emails but I’ll try to do better. I’ll try to post at least one story a day. It might just be a photo of a flower or my husbands weekly art challenges but I need to get my groove back.
I need to take a nap after reading your post. If you weren’t overwhelmed I would be worried about you. P.S. Thank you for not posting every day and giving me some downtime.
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Our grandson recently complained about feeling overwhelmed as well because he couldn’t find time to be creative. I will try to do less and not feel guilty about it and make more time for my creative outlets. My husband is painting up a storm and doesn’t feel the least bit guilty about not getting anything else done.
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My criteria for GUILT is guilt is appropriate if you’ve done something Illegal, Immoral or unethical. Sound like your husband has it right! “More time” doesn’t fit my criteria and you can pick another emotion like frustration or sadness or helplessness or . . . . !!!!!!!! I think our guilt gets applied all to often to things that don’t meet MY criteria.
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What if you limited your blogging to showing us something you had painted that day? It would change your focus. I recently did this and it changed my life. I hadn’t been able to find time to work on a book so instead of posting a poem a day to prompts I posted a chapter of the book. It really helped me get back on track.
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Thanks for the suggestion Judy. I should try that.
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Sometimes uou just need to do nothing. Sit back and enjoy watching life. Breath and relax. Cottage should be healing. Hugs trish
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Thanks Trish. That’s exactly what I’m going to do this weekend.
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Take care of yourself. The blog is “nice to have” but not essential. Don’t let it become something that pressures you. Take a break if you need to and see how you feel about it all!
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Thanks Elke. I’ve decided to put less pressure on myself and not feel bad if I don’t post every day. If I’m going to be at the cottage I’m not going to schedule posts ahead of time because there’s no internet up there. I’ll share things when I get back.
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👍🏽 Sounds like a good plan.
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